“Which clothes I wear is not important. Let things come and go and any moment can be bliss. You don’t need to be anywhere or anybody else. You are already there. Do what you like, do what you don’t like, screw up, it's fine. Let your love flow and enjoy the ride. In two weeks I will be 42 and I think I got the question figured out. I love you. This scarf is your love wrapped around me.”